Hi all. I don't usually post stuff in this forum. But I don't know exactly where to put it.

I am just so tired of my life, My H and I never get along. We have a hard to even talking w/ out someone's feeling being hurt. I can never do anything right. I don't know the answers to his questions and the questions are simple. How am I supposed to ask you to .... clean, stop doing your work at the table, what ever. There is no right answer. He used to gripe, now that issue is resolved. He used to intimidate and raise his voice and now that is getting better but just because he asks nicely doesn't mean I have to do what he says. I think that is more of the issue. If he doesn't get compliance he gets angry. He used to raise his voice or be overly aggressive but he has finally learned to be quieter and calmer but just because one is quiet and calm doesn't mean I still have to do what he wants. Ex. I teach home school. My kids were at my parents for the evening so it was a perfect opportunity to get ahead on my part of the lesson. My H was on the computer anyway. And my little girl was playing in the floor in the room he was in. He finished w/ the computer and asked me to stop working on home school stuff. He wanted me to stop NOW. I had two sentences to write and my work was complete. I asked him if I could write those last to sentences and he said "even if I said no would it matter." WHAT THE HELL. WAIT A F****N MIN. 2 sentences shy of being complete. It's stupid stuff like that that makes me so angry.
While I was working he asked me to hang up the dish cloths not to leave them crumpled in the sink. I didn't want to stop working at the moment. If it bothered him he could do it. Or if he saw it undone he could fix it not request that I stop what I'm doing and get up and do it. He walked out of the room and I get yelled at for not wanting to be sociable and try to get along and work on things. Well pardon. He want me to trot along after him and be so far up his ***** no one can breathe. Because I don't hang on his last word and die for his attention that makes me bad. If he would talk to me in a way that would make me want to be w/ him it would be easier to be around him. But I don't want to be near him only to argue more and be told I am wrong.
I'm just so tired of things. I want to leave some days and other days I don't mind staying. I don't know if a temporary seperation is possible. The anxiety I would have if we sat a date would be mighty high. The T suggests we set a date and if things between us are not resolved in 3 months then a temporary seperation would be best. If not temp then simply a divorce. I have a strong christian background and do not believe in divorce and he is the same way. Society says DIVORCE. But that is so much easier said then done. Sorry just a vent I don't know what to do anymore and need to be heard thats all. Heard and not so alone w/ my own thoughts.