Thanks everyone. I spent 4 days around my only older sister who was also visiting one of my younger sisters who is ill. I hadn't seen my older sister for 5 years due to problems between us. She is still the same even after all these years. She picks on me and is rude to me every chance she gets. It was awful and has been since I was a small child.

I know there is a relationship forum but sibling rivalry is a huge problem that I believe deserves a place of it's own....a place to let off steam about our siblings, not towards other members.

My husband and I talked about the problems with my older sister all the way home.....a 5 hour trip! We also cussed and discussed about it all of the next day. It still isn't out of my system!