When times are hard, or someone dies, or you have been hurt if someone holds you, do you find comfort in it like normal people do? Or do you like me, feel odd being held like that? I grew up in a loving home but I really was not held a lot and didn't run to my parents like some kids and my kids did as a child when I felt wounded. Does anyone know how to move past that and take comfort in this holding....or do we just go through life with a stiff upper lip?????? I feel freakish