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Originally Posted by yellowted
Play therapy will certainly help the youngsters in you, maybe an internal meeting with the angry one and littles (or a littles rep if they are too scared to confront angry one) where things can be thrashed out as to why angry doesn't want it and why the littles do, maybe giving angry the option to opt out whilst the littles play. perhapse you could ask the therapist what kind of toys the littles would be playing with, then get a few for home and gently introduce them so angry sees them as less of a threat.
not sure if that helps but it is what i would do if i had such conflict going on.
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This sounds like a good idea I will mention it to my t. The angry one is afraid for some reason when the thought of playing is brought up. He knows he will not be playing but he absolutely doesn't want anyone else playing. I don't know why. I have asked him but he does not have a conversation with me. He says what he wants and doesn't explain why. It might be because it is me that is asking. I don't know but usually I am the one at therapy when the issue of playing is brought up. I don't know if he would explain his objection to another. I will try to work this out in my head. Thanks