Yes, honestly, I know that's what we "want" to do as parents (I'm a teacher, but first and foremost I am the parent of a special needs child, so I understand this predicament all too well.) However, if you want to truly be heard and have positive action taken for your child's welfare, you have to go through the chain of command, you have to document everything in writing, and you have to stay as "professional" as possible. As soon as you start ranting and raving, you've lost your audience.