I know you care alot for this man, but do you want a lifetime of this kind of thing?? You have NO idea how complicated this can get!! He truly needs help, and I don't know how he would take it if you were to mention to him to get therapy. He would probably tell you to never contact him again -- he's just not rational, and I don't think he'd take that suggestion very well. But he DOES need help, and badly.

You would have nothing but heartache with this man -- do you really want this? You could have so much better than this! Like I said, I know you love him, but this just isn't worth it.

Find yourself someone who is stable and who is able to care for you the way you SHOULD be cared for. You deserve it. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee