How could anyone be selfish who volunteers, works with kids, gives their life to their family, etc? If that's selfish, then I'm J. Paul Getty. For some reason, your ex was just trying to get your goat. Maybe because you dated someone else -- who knows. But obviously he was trying to hurt you and he knew that would do it.

Don't take it to heart, cause if you do then HE WINS!! Don't let him WIN. Just forget it, and let it go. If you let him know that you're upset, then he knows that he's won. And that's just what he wanted to do. I wish you hadn't deleted his number, cause now he knows he got your goat big time. But it's over -- just forget it, ok? From now on, don't take his jabs personally. He's just being a big idiot.

You're NOT SELFISH -- not by a long shot. God bless you sweetie, and take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee