Some good giggles here in light of this nasty situation. I would love to *****slap this woman or kickbox her, but I'd probably lose - she's a PE teacher! And I agree EJ... I never had a good PE teacher... I had one who used to really single me out, I think it was because I'm not Asian and it was a mostly Asian private school, or maybe it was because I was clumsy. She was so mean to me!
It is a small school, there is no other PE teacher.
Farmergirl, thank you (thank you! thank you!) for the great advice, I will do exactly that. I will leave out the heresay about the other special ed kids, but I think I will talk to their parents and make sure they know, or find out if they've complained. I also want to talk to my son's main teacher and the special ed teacher. I think they'd like to know what's going on with their kids. Those 2 are very good teachers and I know they are both fond of my son and probably all "their kids".
I have a lot of social anxiety and not looking forward to meeting with principal, she is new this year. I'm sure she is fine, I just don't know her. The old principal I know well and am very comfortable with, but she is now the super intendant. I'm sure it would not be appropriate to go directly to super, right? I need to do this the right way, and stay professional, and not start sobbing uncontrollably as I have in the past at certain IEP meetings, etc.
Thanks guys!!