Kathy... lets talk again soon... ! We might be able to help each other in this tough situation. I felt that you and Dec really understood what's going on in our family because of my son's asperger. When it comes to meds... we've seen a psychiatrist asking about meds for our son... He says there aren't any tested on kids and maybe the little empathy that he has got, might also go away with meds. We wanted to have something for his anxiety and outbursts... we'll have a second opinion. It's never fun to use meds, but sometimes it's needed to lead a some what better life.
I feel for you and your kids. Which medication is your daughter taking?
I'm always here for you and Dec, Kathy. You're doing an amazing work taking care of your children! I'm proud to be your friend!
Contact me when ever you want to!
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