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Originally Posted by PlatinumHeart
I need to feel good about myself first. I dont feel sexy or pretty so I cant get the ball rolling so to speak.
I think you can re-create the spark. Even if there was not one to begin with.
Unless however you dont find him sexy or attractive? Then thats a whole different story and you have to start asking yourself some tough questions
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Thank you (((Platinum)))
Do I find him sexy or attractive? I find him decent looking but it wan't love at first site like with the guys I dated before him. He has really nice eyes but my ideal is 'tall dark hair and handsome'. When I met him I wasn't feeling good about myself. Heck I haven't felt good about myself my entire life until the last few years that I decided to work hard on myself (I'm now age 40). I'm currently in school working on a degree for a new career. I'm a pt student and stay at home mom.
I'm working on trying to love myself and fix myself and then I will make a decision. I don't want to make the wrong decision or make any decision before my time.
Physically I'm 'attractive' and I get attention from guys half my age when I never got attention from many guys ever (I was overweight most of my life etc...) This is fun to get attention and makes me wonder? What else is out there?
I married my husband because I felt that I need/ed him and I still feel that way. I want to be with him because I choose to be with him not because I feel that need him to survive.
Thanks for listening and ask any questions you like :-)