<font color="purple">you tapped into something with the " maybe I give too much" ....

I now wonder if there isnt something to truthfully be said in that..... and then when we start to take back some of what we give, metaphorically of course, the other person feels shafted ( not the word I am really looking for here, but will have to do for now), then the distancing begins..... Maybe we dont command enough of the taking.... just a thought I am pondering.... I dont usually put up a stick when I am placed on the back burner, so maybe there is some enabling on my part..... </font>