I know this was not an arranged marriage. But if those who have been placed in that position can achieve love can you and your H choose love. Can you agree that you are 2 seperate individuals (me and my H have polar opposite intrests) but find time and space ant the oppertunity to create love. People don't always get married for love but end up allowing them selves to fall in love or pushing them selves to develop love. Is this a possibility with you guys?