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Originally Posted by Big Mama
I know this was not an arranged marriage. But if those who have been placed in that position can achieve love can you and your H choose love. Can you agree that you are 2 seperate individuals (me and my H have polar opposite intrests) but find time and space ant the oppertunity to create love. People don't always get married for love but end up allowing them selves to fall in love or pushing them selves to develop love. Is this a possibility with you guys?
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Sometimes I think it's possible and then there's a part of me that thinks I'm making a huge mistake and then another part of me thinks I'm being stupid for even considering leaving him. I feel so horrible about all of this. I feel like such a bad person. We are separate individuals but I feel like I need someone who shares some not necessarily all of the same interests.
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