Elliemay,
this was highly unprofessional of your T, and I really can't believe that he charged you for those two sessions that were mainly about his problems. You have a right to ask for your money back and I would have a talk with him about ethcs and dual relationships.
This could have changed your relationship forever and therapy is about your problems not his. I would not have an issue if he had kept you back after your session or rang you but not on your time. its not fair.