Pretty pitiful, isn't it? That rarely do we feel secure enough in our relationships that we don't feel "needy?"

Is it our fault, or the men's fault? I really don't know. Are we born too needy or do we get that way by not having our needs met?

Do men assume that our needs are being met just by being with us?

Do they assume this because WE don't say anything?

Lots of questions.