it's the "copycat couch" syndrome.I will go to one aunt's house and see their couch, then I will go to another auntie's house and they have the exact same couch! Who has the good taste? Who copied whom? You can't tell. But can either woman enjoy her purchase? You are now in a perfect position to evaluate what qualities what suit you in a mate. Look for those qualities among your friends, and try not to be deceived.