I find on this third round of therapy that this is an underlying dynamic in my T relationship. That it is a much more disclosing, less tightly boundaried version of my earlier therapy where I knew very little of my T's life and life experiences. This relationship is a much more reciprocal one, and it has something to do with where I am in the therapeutic process that my T is so willing to be so open about himself and his life. Even that is teaching me that relationships are not so cookie-cutter in type, and to be more flexible with my own boundaries when it is good for me.