OK. That does make things different. Sorry for my mis conception. OK so your potentially bi. There is nothing wrong w/ that. The girl you've been hangin w/ must be ok w/ that if she didn't flee upon finding this info out. It still doesn't change anything. If there are shared feelings between the two of you in an intimate way, then it's at least worth talking to her about. Find out what she is thinking. What her concerns are. What if she is as unsure of her sexual identity as you are. More than likely if she is participating in things w/ you you can either have a really good friend. Females seem to be a lot more "friendly" with other girls then guys would be w/ one another. We go to the bathroom together, we change clothes in frount of one another, females can be half dressed and not have any concerns if it's just girls. Guys are so not like that. I really don't think being bi is a problem as long as your loyalties lie w/ her. Your potential prefrence for men may not be a huge concern of hers. Espicially since your not sure.

I to have had some SA issues. I'm very cautious around men. I happen to be married to one. I have a curitosity of females, but I choose not to persue that. I understand why a female may feel more intune to another female. I'll just never know and I'm ok w/ that.

Forgive me. My ADD and PTSD leaves me w/ short term memory issues. I do remember now conversing w/ you in an earlier post about this. I was telling you about a discussion we had in our ladies group at church.

Just keep ticking along. Hopefully this will work out to your favor. But keep your head up as you work on discovering who you really are.