I completely understand how you feel. I am 46 and I was married once and it was horrible! I have been single for 20 years and no one has looked my way for most of those years. When I was younger the only reason a man would want me was for the wrong reasons. My son is 25 and he has never been on a date. I feel for him. He is a good looking young man, but he is into himself too much at this point in his life. I believe he will find someone one day. I figure, the older he gets the wiser his decision will be about who he marries. I don't want him to ever experience what I did with my marriage. It is better to be single than to be married to the wrong person. Hang in there...you are still very young and don't worry about what everyone else is doing...do your own thing and if it is meant to be, it will happen. Take care!