Resentment is the poison I drink to kill my enemies...Something like that.Forgiveness is about you,your journey.The people you choose to forgive,probly couldnt care less,so hating them,only hurts YOU.Forgiveness is NOT saying its okay what you did to me.Its saying,I'm ready to move on.People have a HUGE misconception about hatred. Hatred is not the opposite of love,indifference is.Hatred means that person HAS an effect on you,it means you are TIED to that person.I forgave my abuser, but he doesnt know that