I should have mentioned I am not just talking about a hug. I get sincere hugs often and am ok with that. I am speaking more of being HELD as a way to comfort . I never had that and am not sure I ever will. I wish I did and do not know how I would respond. I tend to think I would be like a piece of driftwood just there and not absorbing any comfort from it. I find that sad and do not know how to turn that around.