Hankster - No, I haven't tried to repeat her own situation back to her to the point of ridiculousness. Lol I may want to try that! Stepmom is hardheaded if you ask me. I think the problem may be that I let her get under my skin, you know? I really have to work on that. My real mom is around and we're very close. I have a problem with confronting people, so I need to shut her down as you say!

Confused - I'm aware I don't need a date in order to be a bridesmaid. I just want to avoid the inevitable comments from my stepmom. But I will go regardless of whether I have a date or not!

Thanks again for your replies, I appreciate it! have a good day all!