Well you don't know unless you ask. The longer you wait the more time goes by that you or hear may feel misled/misleeding. There is no better way to answer a question then to ask. It may not turn out well, but then again it may.

I know that advice is so much easier said then done. Just like people tell here tell me I'm in an abusive relationship and to leave already. SO much easier said than done. Best of luck to you in this. Keep me updated. You are certinly in a tough spot .