DH, you are probably a very responsible person and the needs of your H, boys, work, the house, etc. are high, and whenever you are functional enough to be able to meet them, that is what you do, while personal health is being neglected. It is hard to make personal health a priority, be it mental or dental health. With that, I am now going to make an appointment that I have long postponed, for a skin check. My dermatologist is a lovely lovely lady and there is nothing unpleasant about the skin test - it is just hard to find the time especially when the potential damage is only probabilistic. But I should summon some self-discipline and do it.