Hi Lee, I am sorry you had to go through that. My aunts and uncles aren't like my mom though, and my grandparents aren't like that either. In fact, I think it was BECAUSE of my grandparents that I was able to stay sane despite the actions of my mother, because they were always there to look out for me, and offer me support. As for the rest, I really thank you for taking the time to give input!
Hugs for you all!