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Originally Posted by bamapsych
Chopin, that's a beautiful story. I'm truly moved. If I were able to cry , I would. I wish my T would hold me  We have talked indirectly about this in the past, and she always seemes to make me think that it's wrong for me to crave that from her. We are both straight females (T is 40 and I'm 25), but she sexualizes me wanting to be held by a female mother figure. She says it's inappropriate. She says that a 25 year old female should want a male to hold them in a romantic type of relationship. She reinforces the fact that I feel untouchable. |
I'm a bisexual female, age 35 and she is a straight female, age 55. Anytime my desire for maternal (non-sexual) touch from a female has come up in conversation (since March), she has told me that most likely I will not find anyone willing to do that. She has been very careful to say that there is nothing wrong with
wanting it. She has also reassured me that the reason she stopped hugging me for longer than 5 seconds had nothing to do with her being uncomfortable holding me. She's said she is a "touchy" individual who has had friends tell her to stop touching them.
I understand exactly what you want and
I want to reinforce that there is nothing wrong with it. Your T may be uncomfortable with it, however. I don't think it has anything to do with you.
I will say I think that it was a spontaneous act on my T's part for whatever reason. I don't know if it will ever happen again.