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Old Nov 05, 2012, 04:07 PM
bamapsych bamapsych is offline
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Location: Tennessee
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Originally Posted by Asiablue View Post
You seem to be in very good hands Chopin, you have an awesome T. And how brave of you to ask for a longer hug.

Bamapsych i'm sorry your T seems to think that you should only want hugs from men at your age WTF? Romantic intimacy and maternal intimacy/love (if that's the right term) are two very different things, especially if you were touch deprived as a child. She should know that.
I told her that I think of her and my exT as mother figures. Somehow she relates this to being sexual/romantic in nature. About 3 months ago, I started a new relationship with a guy. He is very touchy. Almost from the start we have been physically/erotically intimate. Even when he holds me in a non-sexual way, I'm still not satisfied.
Thanks for this!
Chopin99