I wish my T would hold me We have talked indirectly about this in the past, and she always seemes to make me think that it's wrong for me to crave that from her. We are both straight females (T is 40 and I'm 25), but she sexualizes me wanting to be held by a female mother figure. She says it's inappropriate. She says that a 25 year old female should want a male to hold them in a romantic type of relationship. She reinforces the fact that I feel untouchable.