CE...I wear my hair very short. I am not hard at all, actually probably one of the softest women you'd ever meet. I keep my hair short because I used to get teased about it. And because men did things to it. I like it short and clean.
So...just take a peak at that hard/soft thought. It's fine to prefer long hair and find it sexy, but us short haired chicks are not mean. I promise.

so glad you had a good session, you deserved it.