he is used to being in power. as you let the air out of his tires by getting stronger, he most likely will compensate by blowing his own horn extra loud. the louder he blows, the bigger you are in his mind. i bet he neer expected you to grow up enough to confront him. he has seen you as his little helpless brother.... gone are those days!!!

I wish you had an ally amongst your relatives. Is there no one you can confide in?