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Originally Posted by iluvdukie1
Emgreen, you're completely right. The people I have dated have been very nice to me and always seem committed. The problems is I'm not, and I realize this and don't want to waste their time, so I just break up with them. It also helps that I don't connect with people very well, it always takes some time before I can really trust them.
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For me, my tendency to isolate has been a HUGE obstacle in past relationships. The key was letting go & trusting the woman I'm with. As a result, my isolation isn't all encompassing. Perhaps M. is one in a million; she understand the periods when I tend to isolate. I feel for you, iluv...I've been in the same space you're in for considerable periods of my life. Hold hope that there's someone out there who understands BP, & is a buffer between you & the insecurities we all feel. Wishing you the best.