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Old Nov 05, 2012, 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
chopin, your thread about your T and the hug was so touching (pun intended!) I wish my T would hug me for a long time. This week I've been thinking about falling apart and then hugging her. Crying, of course. After we talk about boundaries. I feel so close to her, but in a good way. Okay. No more t-talk from me. I'm going to bed.
I finally got the long hug (seriously, it was like 1-2 minutes long), but I still haven't cried. Tomorrow wouldn't be a good day for it either as I have to go to work afterward.

You're doing good here lately Rainbow. One step at a time. Please get your T to explain about boundaries. Please get the book I recommended. Read around the religion. It has too much religion for me and I'm a Christian, but it does teach about boundaries...and no, I haven't finished that book yet. Apparently I need to work on the shame stuff right now.
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Thanks for this!
rainbow8