wow, very informative rhapsody. it has made me feel better actually, because the question here isnt my sexuality, because i know im not gay, i just wondered why im getting these rare thoughts of homosexuality. that article helped alot actually, it has made me feel more comfortable about the thoughts and i know now to accept them.

i must stress that these thoughts are rare, like once a month i suppose. my normal sexual thoughts are about women and are just mild fantasies, nothing worrying. just me being with someone in a special occasion.

thank you rhapsody, and everyone else who replied, i have gained a good understanding now.

you say in the article that i should turn to a close friend or relative about this, theres one problem with that...i have no close friends (or any i would want to get close to) nor do i have any close relatives. so i will keep it in mind for this site and talk about it on this post if i need to, yea?

speak soon