I've always self-destructed the relationships before they could get anywhere. Not just romantic relationships, but same-sex friendships too.

My ex was the ONLY person who was willing to deal with my BS, or who could see through it and realize I was actually a nice guy under all the anger..... Sigh

As a healthcare professional, I would be remiss without saying this.... Please USE PROTECTION when having sex! I know I have had a tendency to jump into bed with any willing partner after my ex left...... Doesn't hurt to "bag it before you tag it"