Hatred is not the absence of Love, Indifference is... Therefore I believe I still love myself, even if I have some deep-seated self-loathing issues... You can definitly LOVE without LIKING, and that extends to ourselves, not just family. You know why I know you love yourself? You take care of her. If you didnt love you, you'd have let her rot a LONG time ago. So you, me, taking care of ourselves, it means we love ourselves, even if we cant 'feel' it on the surface...