Well sweetie, if you really want to work things out, you two need to go to couples therapy. You need to learn how to communicate, because right now you AREN'T communicating, especially HIM. He has to learn to express his feelings -- what he wants and doesn't want. Women are alot better at that then men are. Men basically just say "I dont know" and let it go at that. LOL In couples therapy you learn to communicate, but you also learn how to fight fair -- there IS a right & wrong way to fight. So in therapy, you'll learn that too.

I don't know how old you both are, but I think since you got married "quickly" and didn't date very long, that time is going to help too. Your marriage will "mature" and you will too. So along with therapy, that's going to help. The biggest thing you have to know tho is to be patient and KIND with each other. Treat each other as you would a GOOD FRIEND. For instance, you wouldn't call a good friend any names; you wouldn't fly off the handle at a good friend; you wouldn't criticize or berate a good friend. You would treat that friend kindly and with respect. So that's how you need to treat each other.

Make an appointment for couples therapy, ok? You won't regret it. And will you keep us posted as to how you're doing? WE DO care!! Hugs, Lee