[quote=Chopin99;2691302]1. It would only land her in court if you reported her as touching you inappropriately.
2. I'm starting to dislike your T. Douche canoe fits.
3. There's nothing wrong with what you want.quote]

It makes me feel like I have to trust her, but she don't trust me at all. She cannot model what it means to be vunerable.

Even if a T has a major violation, most clients can't even report it much less actually go through with the court process because of the guilt involved and other mental/emotional/economical/etc factors.

I like my T very much and we do alot of good work together. This is just one of those things where she is horribly wrong. I think it has to do with something that she hasn't worked out in her own life. Intellectually I know that it's her problem, but I still have the thoughts of it being a personal issue she has with me.