I'm well aware of "amandalouise" as a PC member of great insight & knowledge. You are so generous and supportive. But I've never noticed where you live, so when the storm struck "you" didn't come to mind. I am shocked at how unaware I was of where these people I interact with daily or weekly actually live--other than in my computer.
So I just now am learning of your huge loss & how bravely you're coping. I hope your wife equals you in strength. Bless your friends for taking in your pets. I'll be thinking of you all.
Roadie