I know another person who has gone to the same therapist I do. And she did sometimes talk about the therapist's attire. If she was correct, the therapist I usually see dresses in a somewhat outlandish way, and yet it does not register with me. The therapists clothes cannot harm me, so I don't need to notice them.
I understand the concept of support. I just do not understand why the things people say/do are supportive. I have friends who do things for me that they think are supportive. I find them annoying, but I recognize they mean to be supportive. I recognize that others find those things to be supportive. I usually cannot articulate what I would find to be supportive, just what I find not to be.
I find it supportive when my partner kills the spiders instead of insisting I do it. I do not like spiders.