Talk about a slap in the face and a knife to the heart. Now that I know when the finalization is happening, I am not sure what I am going to do.

I sent him a message yesterday asking him to tell me what it is that I did to illicit this divorce, and if there was any chance of making this work. I told him to be honest and don't worry about if he is hurting me, I know it will hurt, but I need to know so I can be prepared. It may take him awhile before he responds back.