I think it's horrible. The whole story. I have a relatively similar situation without the cheating. That, for me is unforgiveable since he made you take care of your mother so he could be an adulterer. That is just.... ugh. Why didn't he just friggin divorce her if he didn't want to care for her or be faithful? Shoot, he's just a lame, immature jerk in a man's body if you ask me. My mother and father have not seen me in over 15 years. They send gifts to my boys at Christmas and birthdays on and off, but that's all my boys know of them. They put a lot of time and effort in their other grand kids though... What did I do? I moved 3,000 miles away and am better for it. NOT suggesting that for you, just give you my story so you know I understand.

You're not a drama queen at all. Your feelings are justified.

*hugs*