We can only hope to get to a place where we can create our own peace with things. I know that with unfinished business in my life with people who have already passed away, I imagine that there is no closure. My T wants me at some point to do some empty chair work where I can create an outcome, to help me with closure. Ultimately, it's up to us to create the peace that we need around an issue. It's really a matter of choice. We can choose to continue in chaos, or we can choose another path.

Naturally, there's a lot of work in between all of that...My T tells me that when I get tired of doing it one way that is obviously not working for me, then I may be more willing to try his way. LOL