Well, here's a thought that comes to mind for me. Could your friend be gay? Myabe the reason she doesn't talk about men like that is because she isn't interested in them. I have a friend like that, I kind of always knew she was, just never said anything. Figured when she was ready, or understood even, she'd come out of the closet.

If that's not the case, well, maybe she is a bit more reserved about things. We all have our aspects that we are more open about, and not everyone wants to be that into the newest fashion craze. Looks aren't everything are they? After all, don't judge a book by it's cover...yaddi yadda.

I don't think you have to abandon this friendship, just realize there are all forms of relations(hips). Some go deep, some only on the surface, and some in between, etc... I have friends that are casual, kindred, distance, etc... She sounds like one of the ones you won't go to for the emotional support needed during a major crisis, but someone that you can enjoy the day with??? or maybe not?

hugs Lisa