I am 26 year old female. I married a man I dated for 3 years before we got married. I know this sounds dumb, but something has always been missing. He is a good man, but very irresponsible and I feel like he takes advantage of me. Money is not the issue except he spends numerous amounts of money he doesn't make. I am a nurse, I work my tail off. I try to work enough over time to cover our spending, but he barely contributes. Correction money would not be an issue if he would stop spending all of it. He is older and a late bloomer in life. While we were dating my parents took him in. He was barely able to survive. I have met someone now that we are married. He is also older, but much farther along in life. Unfortunately we work together and I work in a dangerous ward. I am worried that the intense situations of our job brought us together. Both men make me laugh. The man I recently met is so kind and caring. I am doing everything in my power to stay away from this man. I am miserable. My marriage is important to me too. I don't know what to do. Everything is falling apart and I feel powerless. I continue to pray, but I am still confused.