Hi Empty,
I don't know your story at all, but the first thing that comes to mind is that I hope you find someplace to live soon! I'm sad you had to live in your car at all. And that it got destroyed by the storm.
Good for you for looking for a new t. I know how hard it is to still keep in contact with an old t while starting with a new one. I'm doing the same and have mixed feelings about it.
I would also e-mail a few ts if you can, not just one, so you can have a choice. Psyc hology today is a good place to look.
I hope this helps and you find someone good.