Sweetie, if he says he understands, please don't feel paranoid around him or feel paranoid at ALL. Believe him, if he hasn't given you any reason NOT to believe him. If he says he understands, take him at his word, until he gives you reason to doubt him. Chances are he DOES understand, and will support you as much as you need. Just try not to be too "clingy." That might push him away more than anything else.

A guy has to feel that he has a LITTLE space. He doesn't want to feel suffocated. So when you need support you can ask him to be there, but don't cling to him so he can't breathe. He'll support you the best he can. And chances are it will be plenty.

God bless and try not to worry. I'm sure he's a good guy. Hugs, Lee