That is a tough one. I can't imagine living in another country. Do you and your husband have any friends as a couple? You must either be in a place where english is spoken quite a bit or you know another language. Depending on how your co-workers feel about foreigners, you might be able to start a friendship there.

I guess it comes down to is the extra money worth it or not. The economy and job market is not great, but it might not hurt to look at what is available here. You don't have to take a job if you don't want to, and it might help put things in perspective.

If your husband likes the country, would he be willing to return with you if you decided where you are is not right for you? Another possibiliy would be to stay there for a set period of time, save the extra money, and then return home. Money is nice, and gives you security, but if you are completely miserable, it might not be worth it. Remember, you are not a prisoner, and you do have choices. Figure out which what is most important to you. You haven't done anything that can't be undone.

Sam2