i can understand that " life is what you make it" actually works for some people.

but that for me, is the most frustrating thing

the when life throws you lemmons, make lemonaid.. i can kind of see some sense in that- when life throws you a good experience, use it to your advantage

oh.. and i just thought of something else that really gets me

people beating in to the ground what worked for them.. and saying- oh, this will work for you too

we're all diffrent people.. what might work for someone, may not for someone else

i don't apreciate people saying.. oh do this, do this.. it worked for me- and it's the only way forward... because you really have to find your own way