I hated being nagged about getting a job, for so long. they don't understand how tough it is to find work now, and the frustration just makes it harder. My parent got a job through family so it wasn't hard at all for him plus this was years ago when work was falling from the sky.
I was nagged for years, every single day. I went crazy. I avoided dinner family parties just so they wouoldn't call me out, and that just made our relationships worse. Seriously they would be sarcastic and asking "So what are you doing with life?" every time. I would be my aunt's taxi, taking her and my cousins to places. Even though I explained (that I was looking and trying) they believed I was lazy I even overheard them talking bad about me. - I'm sure your situation isn't as bad as mine.
I do have a job now and almost graduating, parents backed off, you're probably young - things will fall into place sooner or later. Just keep trying and don't go crazy like I did because it will get better.
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