Aw jeez bless your heart. This is miserable. Living with someone who needs help but won't acknowledge it and won't GET it is more than frustrating. It's enough to make you want to tear your hair out! Believe me, I know.

All I can tell you is that you need to make sure that YOU get well. Just concentrate on YOU, and don't worry about him. He's responsible for himself. If he doesn't want to be happy, then so be it. You can't do THAT for him. You've walked on egg shells long enough. It's just time for you to heal yourself.

You can't handle HIS life challenges for him. HE's got to do that. Just leave everything that has to do with HIM to HIM.

I hope you're in therapy. If you're not, find a good therapist. You'll be glad you did. It's got to be all about YOU at this point. YOu've spent enough time on him. He's got to work on himself from now on. God bless and please take care. If you ever need to talk, let me know and keep us posted on how you're doing, ok? Hugs, Lee